It’s one thing for your daughter to date unwisely when her partner is an age mate.
Wes and Samantha: I’m having a hard time knowing how to handle my daughter’s relationship. Samantha: A younger girl dating an older guy comes with assumptions. Either way, this relationship could be good for her. I don’t know why he would be interested in a girl this young. He will introduce her to drugs and alcohol prematurely. Your daughter may be ready to date a guy who is more mature than high school guys, or maybe she just has more in common with him than she does with guys her age.While there is evidence that girls dating older guys are more likely to face relationship violence and to abuse substances, relationships are not statistics.It would be a mistake to order your daughter not to date him just because you think dating an older guy is “risky.” That choice would be like throwing away an apple because there MIGHT be a worm in it.
Therefore even if legal the parents of the minor can make contact illegal. IF something happened and he got you pregnant, are you ready to surrender the rest of your youth to the boring humdrum like of a mommy, while your friends are out partying and having fun, you're at home taking care of your kid....? You're stuck on welfare OR having to hold a job to make ends meet. Pardon me, but how many youth of that age group are satisfied with NO sexual contact?