No, I’m talking about the kind of games when he’s fucking with your mind. He has no interest in your hopes and dreams unless they revolve around him; he only cares that his needs are being met.Basically, he hasn’t learned the difference between dating and being in a grown-up relationship. An actual adult would have already figured out he’s not the center of the goddamn universe.Nowadays, actual adulthood seems to begin around 30.We use our 20s to get all our partying and hookups out of our system — good for us.The problem with this prolonged adolescence, however, is that some people forget that they eventually do have to take some responsibility for their lives and become a useful member of society.And since women tend to mature faster than men, it’s easy to understand the fairer sex’s frustrations about their dating options.By 30, family-oriented women are getting antsy about finding a guy to settle down with (tick-tock and all that), but a lot of the guys their age aren’t on the same page.
What follows is a list of ways you can tell a man isn’t ready for the real world.
But just because he may exhibit some, or even all, of these symptoms, it doesn’t mean he’s incapable of growing up. Try giving him a kick in the ass before you kick him to the curb. As long as it’s not interfering with his life, let the guy play.