Advice for dating a coworker

I am writing on the subject of office friendships/relationships. I have told him that I do not enjoy when people hover over my workspace, yet he continues to linger.

There is a guy at the office who I feel has begun to encroach on my personal space.

But being the only female on the job, I find I do receive a little more attention than I would like.

I also drive him and another colleague home after work and he continuously asks to hang out, which is a nice gesture but I would rather do other things with my time, but there are only so many times I can be noncommittal.

When I am unable to drive him home from work, he still walks me to my car. I am getting the romantic vibe, yet I am not attracted to him.

It seems to me that he does not have too many friendships outside of our working circle.

Clearly.) The next time he asks you to hang out, you’re going to need to be more direct.


I like to keep work separate from my personal life.” But since he knows that you’re hanging out with people from work socially, that won’t work …

so you’re left with having to be even more direct: “No, thank you. And yes, you may feel rude, but he’s not getting your lighter message, so you need to be more direct.


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