It's not reasonable to expect Asian men to participate in the arena which forces them to assume a bottom rung position.
As this one focuses mainly on sexual attraction, he will write an additional post on the relationship aspect.
Are Asian men keeping sexual attraction to black women a secret? The thing is, it is not really about black women in particular. (insert ethnic group here), as much as it is about the tendency for many Asian men to keep their sex lives between them and their partners.
It's less about the women themselves and who identifies as black vs. While representing just my own experience, I don't think my point of view is unique - I have never felt compelled to contribute to casual workplace or schoolmate discussions about my sex life or desiring one kind of woman over another.
Lending more support to the idea that it's not about the women themselves and more about the tendency toward privacy are the contents of more private friend-to-friend discussions, between Asian bros.
BAP, is a sex and kink-positive blogger who writes to encourage Asian men to embrace and express their sexuality.
I was recently intrigued by one of his non-sex posts in which he stated, "Asian men, bros, let me have your attention for a moment.
I don’t need to tell you about the discrimination, you’re living in it. It’s a hostile environment, but the ladies are leading the charge, kicking all kinds of ass, and you’re not helping enough.So don’t think of it in terms of modesty, privacy, or hassle; think of it in terms of picking up a fair share of the work that we all agree needs to be done. They are worthwhile." To my surprise this was in reference to AMWW relationships in which white women were doing more writing than Asian men.