Being too needy dating

You are being extremely nice, excessively accommodating and very careful with your partner.You also want to keep him/her from being exposed to and/or seduced by other people, so you try to spend as much time together as possible, all of which is likely to be perceived by your partner as being clingy.The reason that being needy and clingy is so unattractive is obvious: first, it makes the other person take you for granted and not see any value in you.If you are always around, always available, and you schedule your life around your partner all the time, this means that no effort is required to please you or to be loved by you.Realizing that he/she is a rare kind, you are being much more careful about what you say and what you do and at the same time you are far more eager to see and talk to that person.If you start dating that person and develop a good relationship, you are likely to experience that debilitating fear of loss, where you are really afraid to be dumped, or you are constantly worried that your relationship somehow won’t work out.

And then, you meet someone who is so much more captivating to you on many levels and the kind of person you simply don’t come across very often.It’s a compliment to any of us when we see how important we are to our partner, but inevitably we start wondering – should we really be the most important part in our partner’s life?

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  2. eric   •  

    It’s pretty clear that’s how you and Jennifer Aniston feel about Angelina and Brad, but I’d be careful if I were you.

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