It's as if they believe that dating white women will make society more accepting of them.In the UK, you would be fortunate to find a black footballer or even a black actor with a black wife.“I am not intimidated by black women,” laughed my blue-eyed, blonde-haired friend who is currently dating a black Premier League player.“My boyfriend would never touch one, they are not very attractive.” Her comment did not offend me.They loathe their women so much that they even slander them in front of their white companions, much like the black male I mention in the opening paragraph.The hurtful and humiliating comments appear to be a dismal attempt to ruin the self-esteem of their women.To be honest, I find it difficult to keep track of the number of white women I have met who are certain that their black partners would never want black women.“They are better looking with amazing skin and long hair”, Steven, another friend of mine, remarked when I probed him on why he always dates white women.
I would rather have a friend who is honest to my face than behind my back.“I want my children to be pretty.” Growing up, my mother used to tell me that there is nothing worse than loving a man who does not love you back. Unfortunately, for the black male, his comment did not offend me. I am accustomed to black men denigrating black women and have come to expect it. Many black male celebrities are married to or dating non-black women. The comment didn’t deter him and he is still in search of his beautiful black queen.
” This statement was made by a young black man after my white friend expressed his interest in dating black women.I used to love black men so much that I dated them exclusively for a long time and then I began to notice something. Names like golfer Tiger Woods, basketball champ Kobe Bryant and billionaire and music mogul Dr Dre, who could contribute significantly to the black community and to black families, have chosen not to. There is nothing wrong with interracial dating but the level that black men do is distressing.