The only way to fix this is to dump this him when you’re done reading this.You probably won’t do it, Barb, but I’m really hoping that you do. If he doesn’t think you are good enough, why would you think he is? Or would you guess that a man who has a membership on a dating site is actually, you know… There is simply no viable, reasonable, acceptable response he can make – even if, somehow, he has not met ANY new women since “committing” to you.USING that site for its intended purposes – to meet new women? I’ll be the first to admit – online dating can be addicting – especially when you’re getting a lot of attention.I know you are living together and it’s hard to leave, but better do it now, than later. This time I am not saying anything, but feel he is always looking for something better. My girlfriend who is on looked at his site for me (which is still posted) and said he had been on that day, just a few hours ago, which was while I was gone. A woman who has so little self-esteem that she puts up with such defiant behavior. But if the company knows and doesn’t fire him, whose fault is it that the behavior continues? And if I’m the CEO, I’m gonna keep on openly embezzling. But really, what do you think he’s DOING on Match each day?
Since we have dated for almost two years, I asked him to cancel his online dating account. I told him it was upsetting and we had a little verbal disagreement. But your relationship does suggest a level of patience and tolerance that far exceeds the norm. Imagine a company that lets its CEO cook the books and embezzle from them because he’s a smart, charismatic guy.
After another social event that I attended with girlfriends, I found that he had done the same thing again. –Barb A man who is openly defying his two-year girlfriend to stay active on Match. The shareholders would have every right to demand an ouster. I do hate to be the one to burst your bubble, Barb.
If your live-in boyfriend doesn’t want to quit, he shouldn’t be your boyfriend.
Oh, and by the way, don’t ask him to take his profile down. He’s already proven to be the worst kind of selfish, insensitive prick who can’t be trusted with slippery concepts such as “monogamy”.
My boyfriend – who is over 60 – has had more dates than anyone I know and still receives notifications of women who have emailed him constantly.He has told me about some of them and still hears from many of them. Whenever I have to go to a social function, it shows that he has been on reviewing matches sent to him.