But that's a problem because most guys try to meet women at a club, filled with noise, dancing and drunks.
"It's really amazing how the women respond to this stuff.
I'm feeling like a dating superman now and my friends think I'm using some kind of magic or witchcraft and they can't figure it out.." Rob - Washington D. If she touches you and gets close to you on the first date, that's a very good sign.
There are many variables to consider including time, location, her mood, her receptivity, your attitude, your demeanor, and numerous other factors you will discover here at Better Dates in the future.
If there's a big crowd and she's with a lot of people and it's very noisy it's a bad place to meet and introduce yourself. She probably can't hear you well and you can't hear her.
But none of them requires changing the best opener of all; "Hi." If you deliver a "Hi" with a smile like you're recognizing an old friend you haven't seen in months it can work wonders. Because if you deliver the line like that, she is likely to think she already knows you and can't recall who you are.
If you come off as friendly, non-threatening and sincerely glad to see her (like an old friend) she will be receptive.