Divorce entails a number of transitions and here are some pointers to get your love life back on track: Come Clean with Your Emotions: It may be natural to experience self-blame, anger, feelings of worthlessness or a shattered self-image as a result of a broken marriage but when it comes to dating, those feelings can be caustic.So before you get back in the game, come clean with your emotions.Post divorce pressures are very different for men than they are for women.For the suddenly single guy, introspection, support, life balance and finding reliable help present the biggest challenges.So what we are left with is an onslaught of full-time, hard working men (still wanting to make the relationship work) out on their own for the very first time.How does a single man start over without letting his pride, lack of time or awareness get in the way?Two College sweet hearts get married at 24, have three kids and ultimately live in a beautiful home in the suburbs.The super couple, you know the ones who always walk hand-in-hand or are the first to hit the dance floor at weddings and other special events, suddenly announce to friends and family they are calling it quits after 16 years. Yet in today's break-up scenario, it is the women who are falling short in the long-term commitment, looking for something beyond the conventional marriage.
If that's not enough, it may be a good idea to enlist a professional counselor or therapist who can help you.In fact, a study commissioned by AARP in 2004 revealed that nationwide, women in their 40s, 50s and beyond now initiate 66 percent of divorces.More than one-fourth of their husbands, the study reported, were astounded because they never saw it coming.While a vast library of resources is available to women, when it comes to men and divorce it seems we are just setting the precedent.
If you newfound status has thrust you back into the dating scene please know that you are one in a growing number of plenty.
Condition Yourself to Feel Good: Years of marriage may have led to complacency in the body/weight, personal care and fashion departments.