Dating after domestic violence

You would never say, “I want a relationship to drain me financially,” or, “I’m really looking for a relationship that is emotionally destructive,” but unless you develop trait awareness, these are the signals you give off, and they are the same as they were before.They will set you up again for the same situation, so you must plan accordingly; intend to reject suspicious men by learning how to spot them first.You will always be drawn to and attract destructive men because you will communicate in the same way, unless you become aware of your traits.Once you do, you will be able separate how you respond to certain men based on how they approach you and how they communicate with you.Destructive men search for women who aren’t on the look out for certain things-they look for women who fall for fantasy instead of reality; they look for women who date without awareness, agendas, and ones who act on spontaneity, and speed.The women who misread big, obvious signals and clues are always easy prey, as are women who provide “Silver Platter Disclosure” or who fall for “The Hollywood Hello,” which I discuss in detail in my book, TARGET, and the supporting tele-seminars.You don’t need to change, you need to learn to test the men based on who you are.Some women will never date again because they fear they can’t spot the dangerous, destructive, or abusive guys.

If you return to the dating scene after you’ve been with a destructive man and think you don’t need to plan, then I guarantee that you will end up picking your default dude, or should I say, your default dud.If you are not being intentional in picking your new mate, that is exactly what you will get, a dud, and quite possibly, another destructive one.Women who have been with destructive men often rush into new relationships before they have had time to process what happened, and before they understand what to do differently.Some assume the last guy was just a bad pick-or that he changed, but the one thing that hasn’t changed, and won’t ever change, are your traits, and it is your traits that will get you trapped again unless you are aware of how they function, and work them to your advantage.

These women actually have an advantage; they are the most aware and know that they missed something.

These are the women most likely to crack the code, never having to worry about being in a dangerous relationship again.


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