) You continue to lead your amazing life, career, pursing and researching your dreams, hobbies and desires because your life is awesome and fun without him. If you’re exhausted and all you can think of doing is relaxing in a bath tub? And don’t expect him to account for his every minute.Maintain a little mystery by keeping focused on you and your needs. It’s always the struggle (in dramatic detail) about the giant fish he caught. ” Dating tips for women: we let him chase us and how. I have an early morning and it’s time to go home.” Notice his actions. Men do a lot of things on purpose to get an emotional reaction from us. ) When he doesn’t get an emotional reaction from you, you just put the kibosh on that little game of his. You ever notice how they talk about these accomplishments? If he can’t love you the way you are don’t bother with him. Look at your watch and say nicely, “Thanks for the drink. As women we have been taught to “go after what we want.” That’s perfect for business, but in our love lives, it’s a bit backward. Men are all about accomplishment and production, ladies! The part that drives a lot of us women absolutely nuts: Will he call? Strong men want a strong woman who won’t take any of their BS and will call them on it. She’s “This is who I am, take it or leave it.” Period. If he’s trying to make you jealous with other women he is not respecting you. He is doing it to get a reaction from you and it’s disrespectful. Like football, extreme sports and climbing the corporate ladder. (even if it’s a Minnow) Or the meanest, toughest smartest animal he ever “brought down.” Then they display the animal on the wall so he can talk about it whenever someone comes in the room. He wants the thrill of the hunt and chase with you, too. He and his buddies all want the woman they can never quite figure out or control. Remember one of my favorite “bitches” Dolly Parton? If he tells you about women that are “coming on to him” or an “ex-girlfriend” he is getting together with?
When asked the key to her successful marriage she said “When my husband gets a little complacent, I pack a bag and stay gone! If he’s just trying to get the reaction, get ready for flowers. (and yes…you let him know what you would like to do, too! It’s something you’ve been working at, excelling at and enjoy. You don’t tell him every detail of your life, so he wonders what you’re up to. You don’t have to tell him what you are doing every minute of every day.
Keep moving to the rhythm that makes you feel good. While you’re getting to know each other, try to keep your dates shorter and don’t spend long hours talking about feelings with him. If I do get married it will have to be someone wonderful.” Perfect. Love, Goddess Want to learn from The Most Famous Seducers in History? I highly recommend this fabulous book: Seductress A wonderful resource that I keep on my night stand.
(call a girlfriend) Don’t ask him “Where he thinks things are headed.” Never bring up marriage, kids, etc. When he DOES bring them up, give a vague but clear answer. First he’ll probably be shocked that HE was the one bringing up marriage. Bitch Lifestyle the Manual All about men and owning your Sassy Bitch…now on Amazon! My Re-Awakening Program gives you the tools you need to get Sassy and Man Magnet ready!
And there are so many more things you can do to let him chase you. This is key: Remember that you are a “wonderful catch.” Any man would be lucky to get you!
Being a divorced person for six years, I think I can paint a pretty accurate picture of some of the typical traits I see in divorced men.
Of course, I realize every man is unique, but these are just some features that I notice a lot. And they don't want to feel obligated to do anything!