So the first order of business is to adjust your perception, and thereby, your attitude.Oprah even said that a woman like me has a better chance of being hit by lightening than getting married!Please tell me how I can meet the man of my dreams at my age..is he just a pipe dream?Do you have any tips for how I can start scoring dates with marriage-minded men?In Need of Dating Tips for 30 Year Olds " Dear In Need of Dating Tips for 30 Year Olds, First of all, put away that giant metal pole during the next lightning storm, head indoors, and stop worrying about being struck by the closest bolt. But neither is your dream of finding a hubby if you don’t buy my book Think & Date Like A Man and change your attitude - quickly!But being in panic mode is not helping your cause any.
There is hope for you yet, despite Oprah’s words of doom.Optimism: The Key to Seduction: Like I said, the sense of desperation or neediness in another person is a total turn-off.No matter if the relationship is platonic or romantic, there’s one thing that’s sure to send the other person running in the opposite direction - Desperation! This is not to say that I don’t understand your dilemma, because I do.And your concerns are based on some pretty sound evidence - just look at the fact that there are 28 million single women over 35 compared to a mere 18 million men, and that approximately 80% of women (specifically Caucasian women in the U.
S.) are married by the time they’re 30 - for proof.Those are some scary stats, especially if you’re ready to settle down.