I want to surprise my girlfriend with a holiday getaway in JA beach view hotel in Dubai , but she is refusing the idea of spending the holiday with me in the same hotel room because she said we will get caught and its 8 types of "haram" which she said means forbidden. Is there anyway i can spend some time with her without being afraid of getting caught?
We got caught once for kissing on the beach but they let us go after two hours in the station!
The purpose of marriage in Islamic culture is to preserve the religion through the creation of a family.
According to the teachings of the Quran, a married Muslim couple is equated with clothing.
Within this context, both husband and wife are each other’s protector and comforter, just as real garments “show and conceal” the body of human beings. The Quran continues to discuss the matter of marriage and states, "And among His Signs is this, that he created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your [hearts]…".
The family is meant to be “productive and constructive, helping and encouraging one another to be good and righteous, and competing with one another in good works”. ; and hold not to the ties of marriage of unbelieving women, and ask for what you have spent, and let them ask for what they have spent.
In Islam, polygyny is allowed with certain restrictions; polyandry is not. That is Allah's judgment; He judges between you, and Allah is Knowing, Wise.
But if you feel that you should not be able to deal justly, then only one or what your right hand possesses. In most Islamic societies and communities it is not a common practice for young people to actively seek a partner for themselves by following modern and Western rituals, such as dating.