Therefore, the online assessment might not reflect an accurate reading of their primary love language.In light of this, for children ages 5 to 8 years old, you might try the following exercise instead.Depending on the child's attention span and the time of day, you may get many answers, or you may get very few.If it seems like slow going, then you may want to secretly explore the subject of love with your child for a week or so until you can deduce what he or she perceives as love.You'll be looking for a theme or a repetition in their answers, and from this, you can accurately determine your child's love language.
" Or you may intentionally experiment by expressing love in each of the 5 ways over a week's period of time.This will be a subjective measure, but the combination of all these suggestions—studying your child's answers or drawings, listening to their answers about other parents and children, and "measuring" their response to your expression of each of the five love languages—should be enough to help you accurately assess your child's primary love language.If you are lucky enough to catch your child in a talkative or expressive mood, you may be able to get him or her to identify several ways parents show love.Now discover how to speak your child’s love language in a way that he or she understands. Discover your child’s primary language—then speak it—and you will be well on your way to a stronger relationship with your flourishing child.
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So many parents wonder about their child's love language, and admittedly, determining the love language of a young child requires some educated guesswork. Because young children can't yet verbalize their love language.