How To Become A Date Whisperer You choose to see each past trauma as a fluffy cumulus cloud.
Since we attract what we are, not what we want, you start seeing your dates as a mirror that reflects a weakness that you need to strengthen within yourself.
Or, you strengthen your strengths so any weakness loses power and importance. Seeing each new date through the veil of your past .
This also means that you ask for no more from a potential love match than you're willing to give.
What if you keep attracting a date with qualities that you don't like?
If so, you might be making three dating mistakes that take the fun out of dating and block love. Below are three surprising dating mistakes that may keep you from finding the love of your life. Have you created your mental picture of your perfect match?
Do you wonder why no one measures up to your standards? It aligns with a universal law which states that like attracts like. I often tell my online community that you find the right person by being more like the person you want to date.
Do you reject every date who doesn't measure up to your physical, financial, intellectual, spiritual or social standards?
Identify yours, then learn what you should be doing instead. Do you go on dates with a list of ideal qualities you seek in your ideal match?
When you do so, you will attract a date who reflects, shares and values your best qualities. Do you expect the same old patterns and problems with each new date you meet?
If you were betrayed in a past relationship, do you keep looking for any signs of disloyalty in a new date?
Do you expect the same old disappointments and notice that you always get what you expect? Understand the universal law which states that what you focus on expands.
When you focus through your veil of past troubles, you attract more of them.