(But don't pace a track on the carpet for goodness sake...) If you're in a bar or nightclub, the best place to be is at one of the corners on the bar. That hot stranger approaching your table and asking "may I join you" only happens in the movies.2.
Not only will you meet more people, but, according to Mehrabian, bartenters tend to gravitate toward the corners as well. You'll feel like you've died and gone to dating heaven. THE COLOR LUREWhat color can you wear to compel the opposite sex to approach you? Red adds an element of excitement and attracts two types of men - men interested in sex, and men attracted to powerful women.
Body language tips for both sexes: Don't fold your arms and don't chew on gum, ice or your fingernails.
According to Wood, the chewing indicates anxiety or frustration, neither of which are very attractive emotions.4.
BODY TALK THAT REELS 'EM INHow do you use body language to attract the opposite sex? According to nationally-respected body language expert and professional speaker, Patti Wood, you want to make yourself a "safe" (read approachable) target. Don't take up a lot of space (which is a sign of power and superiority.) Wood says, "we are strong women, but remember, we're trying to get a man to come over and talk to us." She explains, "you have to show you have room for someone else in your life."In addition, Wood says "to be very approachable women should stand with their feet no farther than 6 inches apart with toes pointed slightly inward.
" Other key moves, the nod and the head tilt - signal you're listening to what the other person has to say.
THE POWER OF A SMILEPsychology and body language experts agree that one of the most important things you can do to make yourself more attractive (and approachable) is to smile.
Smack-dab in the center of the room, standing up and moving around a bit.According to Color Consultant Leatrice Eiseman, Director of the Pantone Color Institute and author of Colors For Your Every Mood, says women should wear a pink- peach to make themselves most approachable. Sure, you'll probably have to fend off a lot of freaks, but you could also end up attracting a guy that isn't threatened by the fact that you make a bigger salary. Stay away from what Eiseman calls "squished caterpillar yellow-green" which is said to repel both sexes equally.The color is "very flattering to most skin tones, it gives you healthy glow," and according to Eiseman, projects "a little vulnerability which brings out something protective in men."Want to wear a color that weeds out guys who can't handle strong women? Men who aren't attracted to strong women will steer clear. Want to know what color the dream guys will be wearing this year? According to Eiseman, guys who frequently wear blue are "stable, faithful, constant and always there." The blue guy is a fantastic candidate for a long-term relationship -- he's dependable, momogomous and can match his own clothes.3. Spokeo uses proprietary deep web technology to search over 60 social networks for status updates, photos, relationships, and profiles.
By Lisa Daily Want to quintuple your odds of winning in the dating game? Albert Mehrabian, the author of several books and nationally-known expert in the field of spatial psychology, where you are in a room (and what you're doing) has a lot to do with your ability to attract the opposite sex.
According to Wood, "the smile is the international signal of friendliness."5.