Those first couple of sessions set you apart from other guys.
That said, if it's not ok (for the women who aren't into it)..have that incredibly awkward moment of "oops, I went too far" The advice?
Would you refrain from dirty talk out of fear not to look too "engaged" in the action in a negative way?
Some forums can only be seen by registered members.Another related behavior could be slightly aggressive techniques like hair pulling, cheek slapping, etc, what do you think it's the proper etiqutte during the first encounter? like someone else said--if it's a ONS then just go for it.