"You think you're bonding, but he thinks you're an open book to everyone." What you censor — about your exes, family, friends, even your schedule — can be more powerful than what you reveal.So talk about your job and interests but stay mum about the juicier details.
"Andrew looks like Brad Pitt's little brother, and I knew he was used to women being at his beck and call," she says. But I'm all ears now.' He felt lucky to have caught up with me." How everybody wins: Men, says Argov, equate longing with love.
Soon enough, he'll be dying to have you fill in the blanks.
Jenny, 24, was able to pique her man's interest by playfully dodging his questions.
"Over dinner, Andy asked me if I was seeing other people.
Early-stage TMI is a major turn-off for most males.
"Men feel disoriented when you disclose intimate details too soon," says Kreidman.