As history has it, when people defected from My Space to Facebook, that online community became a dust town.Dating sites like Ok Cupid and Plenty of Fish (POF) became more popular.Decent guys who really were more descriptive in their profiles were pushed out by the overtly masculine “bros” that dominated the site.
First, was the women became less trusting, less open and much more selective in who they even talk to.
Second, the number of dudes in shirtless photos and less engaging profiles shot way up.
I’m not the typical “guy” who posts shirtless pictures of himself on dating sites or sends unsolicited pictures of his genitals to random women.
But I am a guy who is fond of online dating sites, so I have a few tips that might help you when using them.
They have a decent algorithm as I found myself conversing with smart, funny and attractive women regularly. There wasn’t much competition — that is, not many other guys were using it when I was.Eventually as more and more men (late majority) joined the site, I observed two problems.