The INFJ can handle spontaneous fun, and we would enjoy the ESFP's desire to make us and others happy.
We'd appreciate their warm, outgoing nature, their generosity, and their tendency to indulge the senses.
These people are exciting and a ton of fun to be around.
Here are a few of their strengths and weaknesses (according to Personality Page and my Mass Match hard copy): Personality Page says "Although two well-developed individuals of any type can enjoy a healthy relationship, ESFP's natural partner is the ISTJ, or the ISFJ.
ESFP's dominant Extraverted Sensing function is best matched with a personality that is dominated by Introverted Sensing." And here's the Mass Match breakdown: Well, I'm going to put aside the warning bells going off in my head and try to look at the positives.
Having a relationship with someone who knows how to make the most of every moment would probably be fulfilling on some level.