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I posted about this not too long ago, how I don't like being told what I am thinking and feeling. And it's smart to check out each other's fighting styles and to NOT make the next fight worse or longer.
Some people can't just take things at face value and constantly dissect and question the intentions of others. And I've talked with a lot of older couples, and what they all say is one of the secrets to having a happy long term marriage is...
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(He was just coming over , no plans to go anywhere.) I told him to just stay home if he was that disinterested in spending time with me. I asked him if he's had this same conversation with other women and he did not like that comment.
He did come over rather than stay home because at some point, I said well, if you want to come over, don't you think you should be getting in the car? We hugged and kissed a lot after, but I always feel he's just doing what he thinks he should.
I am old school, common sense, actions speak louder than words.