Whether you have a vibrator that is synced to your i Tunes or a pillow that allows you to hear your partner’s heartbeat wherever they are, technology can be a beautiful thing.And for those in long distance relationships, it’s a necessity.Remember that you are doing this to enjoy each other so have fun with it! Try talking it through ahead of time to alleviate some of the nervous energy regarding letting loose in front of your computer screen. Again, I stress, this is about you, not your audience. Make sure you are getting the most pleasure and that you are comfortable. Skype sex (and mutual masturbation in general) is an amazing way to share an intimate part of yourself with your partner. Your partner will know if you’re having a good time and they will be into it, too. Show appreciation for your partner and give them encouragement. For me that makes it feel more like sex than just watching each other masturbate. Non-verbal ways of indicating pleasure reception, ya feel?
Because we’re not living in the dark ages, where hand-written letters and the occasional phone call were the only things connecting you and your partner, we have amazing inventions to keep people closer together, even if they are a world away.Skype has grown to be every long distance relationship’s third wheel.