Most dating sites give you a place to write a heart stopping headline.This is your first impression — the cover of the book, the opening sentence, the hook. Your dating profile either gets attention from the wrong type of person, or gets totally ignored.Sometimes you doubt anyone is going to love you again. If your profile is sending the wrong message, then that gorgeous, fascinating, almost perfect partner is not going to notice you. It took me exactly two and a half weeks to find the man of my dreams.Within two days I had made it to number #3 in the top 100 women in my age group.None of this was because I’m exceptionally stunning or unique.My internet dating career was successful because of my profile.What I stumbled upon accidentally, turned out to be my greatest asset.
Even though I’ve just gone on about the source of quote, don’t worry too much if it doesn’t have an author — it will still do the work for you.I did one simple thing to make me stand out from the crowd.Instead of presenting a laundry list of who I was and what I wanted, I created a story about what my partner’s life would be like with me in it.Here are a few examples from current profiles on a popular site: Now be honest, do any of these headlines intrigue you, or make you want to know more about the person? My dating profile led with a quote instead of a position description. It has content (what the quote actually says), it has tone (beautiful, funny, sarcastic, solemn), it reveals something important about you in relation to the author (a Homer Simpson quote says something different to an Anais Nin quote), and it attracts someone who has a similar cultural or literary taste (again Homer Simpson vs Anais Nin).
Chose a quote about love because after all that’s what you’re here for.
But that doesn't mean you don't have control over your fate. In this post, I am going to teach you a few steps to help make this happen.