Dating more than one person allows you to compare and contrast and see who rises to the top.It also gives you the opportunity to date until you're ready to commit, without becoming completely absorbed by one person.What to do instead: Start out slowly, Cantarella says.One safe, effective and time-efficient way to start out is to trying online dating. You are able to set the pace and decide who is right for you.2.Also, never assume that you are in a committed relationship until you have discussed it with the person you are dating. The circumstances surrounding your divorce or even the state of your marriage pre-divorce may play a part in whether a woman is emotionally ready to date.
Being exclusive too soon."As a dating coach I encourage my clients to cast a wide net and date more than one person until talk of exclusivity arises," Cantarella says."I've found that because my divorced clients come from long-term monogamous relationships, they feel they shouldn't date more than one person at a time," she adds.