He is very secretive about her and doesn’t let me see what she writes to him.
My husband gets very angry when I tell him how much this hurts me.
A year ago my husband started chatting with women on the Internet. He says that the women don’t mean anything to him but he won’t quit.
All his free time is spent chatting with these women. There is one woman that he seems very close to they talk everyday.
You need to go to your pastor and/or a counselor even if he doesn’t come with you.
This situation may require separation if he is not willing to work on your marriage.
How can you be united as a couple if another woman is so important to him that he ignores your concerns and talks to her daily and keeps it secret from you?
I do not advocate divorce, but separation may show him how serious you are about his behavior and that you will not tolerate it. What he is doing is breaking the trust in your relationship.Trust is a very important ingredient and foundational to your marriage.