But if you're going to have an affair here's how to do it An interesting thing happens when you speak to hundreds of people who have ended relationships because their partner cheated; you actually learn how to have an affair.
I have actually been asked by those in relationships to share with them how to have an affair so they don’t get caught!
Typically YOU want to be in control of the arrangement and be upfront with the person you are cheating on your partner with.
I believe if you’re contemplating cheating, my advice is to always try and solve your issues BEFORE you decide to stray, or end your relationship first.
When these things all at once; the red flags go up in your partner noticing that “something is different”.