Below are the 5 top reasons black women are apprehensive about going there with a white guy.1.
Body image Black women are known to be naturally curvaceous. Thinner is usually all around better within the white community.
The women I surveyed said they were naturally intimidated when it came to dating a white man because of their hair.3.
After speaking to 6 black women between the ages of 25-40 most state that they believe a white man would not be attracted to them because of their voluptuous bodies.2.
Hair Black women have been ridiculed for their hair for many many years. If we have a weave, we aren’t happy with who we are and would really like to be a white woman. Since this is already a touchy subject in the black community, it’s obvious as to why a black woman would rather avoid the whole “hair conversation” when dating a white man.
Regina King recently raised the argument that we as black women still have not become completely comfortable dating outside our race.
I recently did a survey on a group of black women regarding their reasons for not dating men who are not of color.
We are praised for our assests by the black men who love us. In the white community this has been the complete opposite. This is naturally engrained in both African American and Caucasian people’s subconscious.
Interracial dating has been one of the biggest conversations within the black community.Black men have made it no secret their liking to white women.Through my findings it seems as though black women aren’t actually opposef to dating outside of their race.Part of the dilemma lies in women of color thinking that men outside of their race won’t be attracted to them.
Chris Rock made the movie “Good Hair” that touched on many areas of what black women go through regarding their hair. Sure most black men hate weaves but the women I surveyed expressed how a black man would understand more because he was raised by a black woman.Because of this, a black man knows all the changes his mother may have went through maintaining her hair. A white man on the other hand is used to naturally unenhanced straight hair that he gets to run his fingers through.