This is the typical reaction when a friend suggests that maybe that guy whose been dangling you along for months is juggling a couple other women.But, the guilty conscience associated with dating multiple people has been worn down over the years.If this guy was taking things slow just because he wasn’t that into you, he wouldn’t kick up a fuss about you ending it.But, if he is keeping you around while he decides who of many females is his best match, he won’t want you off the roster.Women have to feel a LOT of attraction for you based on what you say and do when interacting with them.You can’t just make a woman feel an average or low amount of attraction for you and then expect that she will put up with you wanting to sleep with other women.If a woman can tell that other women aren’t very interested in you, she will find it easy to gain control over you.After a fabulous date when he feels really close to you and has forgotten about the other women, he may want to sleep with you.
We are Answer is always “maybe”Whenever you invite him to do something far in advance, his answer is always “maybe.” He doesn’t say, “Because I may have a work thing” or give an excuse. If this only happens occasionally, you may not have to worry.
But if it happens Sex is sporadic Men are humans too. Your guy might go in and out of feeling okay about sleeping with you.