Can you trust him to value your feelings even when he doesn’t understand you?
Character can sometimes be difficult to discern in a dating relationship.
” The most serious red flags in my book can be summed up with 3 C’s.
I would rather marry an unattractive, boring man with great character than the most charming guy who lacks it.
A healthy marriage is impossible without traits like integrity, kindness, and unselfishness.
How can you be sure that he is really working late when he doesn’t come home until ?
While all of us are sinful and have aspects of character that God is working on, character flaws are very resistant to change apart from God’s direct intervention.
Remember this: abuse and control are closely related.
So, the question becomes when does a red flag mean, “proceed with caution” and when does it signify “run for your life!When I hear heartbreaking stories of men who become physically, sexually, or emotionally abusive in marriage, the seeds for this behavior were almost always evident in the dating relationship: He got angry when she was five minutes late.