Some daters are overly critical and they can appear cold or needy.In my book, I suggest that if there are no red flags, you should give everyone three dates before you dismiss them. Pay Attention to Your Patterns Although I’ve said rejection is not always about you, there can be times when dating is an opportunity to learn about yourself.
Why someone rejects you often has more to do with them – their blueprint, psyche and what they find attractive – and it doesn’t mean you aren’t terrific. Dating is a Numbers Game The best writers are constantly rejected before finally being published.
In fact, it was suggested that NYC literary agencies only represent 1 out of every 4000 manuscripts (and out of those, how many get published? Yet, we think lasting love should come quickly and easily – like in the movies.