among lovers who are geographically separated, or among individuals who have no prior knowledge of one another and meet in virtual spaces or cyberspaces and may even remain anonymous to one another.
In some contexts cybersex is enhanced by the use of a webcam to transmit real-time video of the partners.
It can also be performed using webcams, voice chat systems like Skype, or online games and/or virtual worlds like Second Life.
The exact definition of cybersex—specifically, whether real-life masturbation must be taking place for the online sex act to count as cybersex—is up for debate.
There's a good reason why romance and erotic novels are among the most successful and most read books in the world - you can even take Fifty Shades of Grey as an example!Even though the book makes no sense from a storytelling point of view and is equivalent to a horny fantasy of a couple of 16-year-old girls - it was one of the most successful books because of its content - which is exactly the same reason why girls like to have sex chats!