: Although not a mistake per se, but more of a conditioning, the average guy gets paralyzed at the thought of getting verbally dirty with women [sexually]. Sparing you the drawn-out proceedings, I’ll get straight into the heart of the matter!
The impact of course will be more profound if done in person as on a date or lying in bed with the girl.
Firstly, let’s begin with the 3 most common follies and mistakes guys make when it comes to sex talk: : Bad timing is the most common mistake we make as men.
I’ve witnessed guys try to strike up sex talk at a crowded bar counter to no avail.
Contrary to popular belief and falsified bullshit put out there by women, talking dirty with your date is actually possible and a great sign of things to come! They won’t see a thing but hear you moaning silently”…
This has to be done more subtly however since you’re in the presence of others [at a restaurant, etc.]. Flirting quite naturally has the potential to lead to dirty talking since flirting is the proverbial spring-board to getting you there. Ok guys, that was an actual excerpt from a sex chat I had with my GF via Blackberry messenger [BBM].
I’ve also witnessed guys attempt to talk dirty with girls but they run with it before crawling and taking baby steps.
Irrespective of the season, talking dirty with women should be a huge part of your seduction repertoire.Not that this is inherently a bad idea, but you have to be socially aware enough as to when you can go verbally sexual and when you shouldn’t.: Another common mistake when it comes to talking dirty is to jump right into it without warming the girl up first.[Motion for her to put a piece of what she’s eating into your mouth] Me: “Eem, yummy! Notice how I didn’t dive right in and say something like: “I want to fuck you”! That was a perfect example of how to initiate sex talk with your girlfriend or wife. Ok guys, hopefully you get the point of how to go sexual (verbally) with strange girls at bars.
Although adamantly against taking girls on dinner dates, presuming you’re still trapped in the matrix of romcom-dating advice and you’d taken the girl to a fancy restaurant, you can kick start the dirty talking in the following fashion: [I would feed her a piece of my lobster] Me: “How do I taste😉 “? Me: “Can you handle more of me…I mean the lobster”? Notice how I’d started small at first just to test the waters then I became more sexual as she was playing along.
[I’m inducing some sexual tension which will cause her to blush, flush and engage in the mutual flirting] Me: “Let me taste a piece of you”. Ok guys, that was just a template of how to get sexual over dinner. Me: “If I were at your job right now, I would so fucking crawl under that desk and go to town on your kitty cat”! At the end of the chat, the convo became more vivid as I told her how much I wanted to slide this cock down her throat until she begged for me to stop!