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This is the first time that I have left my family behind, because of the children's schooling.
When I talk to my wife over the Internet (audio and visual), I sometimes ask her to show me part of her body, and this causes intense sexual provocation which I cannot resist, so I masturbate with my hand to ward off this desire. It is permissible for a man to find pleasure in speaking to his wife and looking at her or at her picture in a chat program, so long as he takes precautions so that no one else can see or spy on him.
Does this come under the heading of the verse “Except from their wives” [al-Mu’minoon 23:6] or of enjoying one’s wife? With regard to masturbation with the hand, the general principle is that it is haraam, except in the case of one who fears that he may fall into zina, in which case it is permitted.
This happens because my husband is always travelling and we only see one another every four months.He replied: There is nothing wrong with it; rather it is permissible. Shaykh: Using the hand is subject to further discussion; it is only permissible if the person fears that he may fall into zina.