If a guy wants to do these thing it is his choice and he should not be considered a sissy boy because he appreciates looking good in public. Men have been piercing ears for a long time, not just recently.
If you ask me, they look more like yuppies from San Francisco, yet this is what passes as "hot" to the average young female. It is an age old argument, if you would call it that, that women primp and preen for a man.
This turns the table, in the fact that now men know what women go through to get all dolled up. I do have longer hair, it's a preference, I have my ear pierced and when I go out I take the time to make sure I look good, however this in no way makes me a sissy boy.