If a man starts flirting with you in line at Starbucks, it isn’t because you look Being intelligent when it comes to men isn’t the about your comprehensive knowledge of nuclear physics or finance; it’s about a complete understanding of one subject, him.
If you’re smart about men, you’ll realize that there are better ways to display your intelligence than what I see some women doing in the dating world today.
Caring about what you look like isn’t the ultimate betrayal of feminism or an insult to female intelligence.
Feeling beautiful is an essential part of being a woman yet some very intelligent women ignore their looks almost as an allegiance to their intelligence.
There’s the story of the doctor who tried to climb down her ex-boyfriends chimney and died or the astronaut who drove cross-country in a diaper to confront her lover’s girlfriend. No man goes out to a bar, to a nightclub, to a strip club for that matter to meet an intelligent woman.
Just because a lot of so-called beautiful women act dumb in pop culture doesn’t mean being smart equals being ugly but society often promotes that association.
At the end of the day do you want a man who isn’t attracted to all of you?
It has never been scientifically proven that men prefer beauty over brains.
What we do know is that even the smartest women do some dumb things when it comes to love.
If you’re an intelligent woman and you have the documents to prove it, good for you but being smart about men isn’t the same as being book smart. What every smart person should know is being charismatic is just as important as being intelligent.
So I find that some intelligent women make the following mistakes when it comes to attracting and interacting with men.