Everything you’ve done, said, thought, or felt remains with you, from life to life, as you experience your sequential incarnations. Often things come around and go around and come back again according to circumstantial triggers in your life, and a few other cyclic, cosmic factors you’re not privy to. Once you realize this truth about your interactions with others, you’ll see it everywhere: former lovers, friends, enemies, family members. This is a very valuable “polarity,” developed over many lives of practice. Nothing ever seems agreeable to you both; you can never make them happy; they seem to you to act as if you owe them something. If you can figure out what they are, you might be able to identify the past-life situation, which will help you move on, or resolve it in the present. (Which is certainly a good thing now and then, but every time, with the same individual, signifies something unseen at work.) You feel you owe them, but this is probably not in your conscious awareness.
After a stunned moment, we both broke out laughing.What didn’t occur to me until long after she moved out and I went off to marry a really nice guy was that we’d probably already done the marriage routine, and left an imbalance we had to work out in our present lifetime, fighting over that stupid electric bill.