Most healthy relationships already have enough space and alone-time for a person to do their contemplating about how they feel.
Many men use this sentence as a break-up strategy, with the idea that once they are away from you, the break-up will be easier for them to execute.
If a man is moving out to get his space, it is virtually assured that he won’t be moving back in.
Some men are trained to be so polite at all times that they can’t end a date without booking a next one. I’ll marry her.” Men have a reputation for being commitment phobic, and this reputation is born out of what men say to women. Many men will blame their disinterest in a particular woman on their commitment phobia, but they aren’t really scared of commitment. Sure, he’s physically attracted to you, and he probably wants to express that in some way, but there’s no reason to doubt that he thinks you’re a beautiful woman. “It’s not you, It’s me.” Really Means – “I’m doing the dumping, so technically it is me, not you.
Some time ago there was an e Harmony Advice discussion about what a woman really means when she asks to split the check after dinner on the first date. Most women agreed that even though she asked to split the check, what she really wants is the man to refuse to let her and pay the whole thing himself. We thought it might be nice to examine some of the ways that men, while dating, say one thing and mean another. “I’d love to come in, but I have to get up early tomorrow.” Really means one of these two options: • 99% – “I don’t feel great chemistry with you.” • 1% – “I’m dog tired and I have to get up early.” It is not unheard of for a man to be tired at 10 p.m. If you’ve been out having a dinner date, seeing some entertainment or talking all evening, fatigue can set in.
But if you invite a man in and he refuses, the chances are very good he’s not feeling the strong tug of chemistry.
They have decided, based on what they’ve seen and heard, that this particular woman isn’t right for them. But I’m breaking up because I just don’t feel it for you.
If he’s “got to get up early” two times in a row – you have your answer. We’ve all dated the person who is simply waiting to be entertained.
When a man asks about your weekend and you say, “I just sat around the house,” all kinds of warning bells go off. “I need some space.” Really means one of these two options: • 98% – “I need a new girlfriend.” • 2% – “I think I might need a new girlfriend, and I need some distance so I can decide for sure.” This is an interesting sentence.