Say you look "fine" when you ask them how you look.
Once a guy in this position invited me over and said "don't judge." Earth to That Dude: all we're doing when we first come over is judging.21. What we want to do tonight is be taken out without having to figure out where we're going or what we're doing. I'm not a rocket scientist but that's basically a dead giveaway that it's not, like, your mom.25.
Tell you that you're The One and then do the slow fade. The best cuddling position is him on his back and your head on his chest.
In two weeks you notice he found his next The One in a nightclub and is posting photos of them flirting on Instagram. Tell you to wear your hair down when it's in a ponytail. Never comment on a girl's appearance unless you're telling her she looks hot AF.
Cuddle you oppressively for extended periods of time. If you get scared by that idea then tell me so I can spare my family and friends (and myself! Call you "babe" or "sweetheart" when you've known each other for 20 minutes. This is what 50-year-old men who want to date 19-year-old women do. I have a brain and eyes I use to read the same shit you do, and I've been on my own for long enough to know how to live in the world.16. Let me eat my dainty calamari and black rice and we can get you a pizza afterward!
I'll be ignored, say almost nothing the entire time, and pass on the nachos, not because I'm worried about my weight, but because I'm not sharing finger food with five man boys who have all visited the bathroom in this here dive bar.11. The family/friend introductions are a sign that shit is getting serious. When we go out for tapas I don't want to feel like I'm fighting for my meal. Call women "crazy." You know when you're talking to a guy about someone he was dating and he says, "Oh, she got Cr Az Y." Like, no, she didnt get crazy, you did something to make her crazy!
Invite you over when they have a mattress on the floor instead of a bed. What, in case your friend sends you a Snapchat of his dadbod? When you ask them who they're texting, they say "nobody" and try to hide their phone.
Or have their phone out on the dinner table on a date.
" Because his nighttime plans didn't work out and he's hoping that YOU will bone him now. Invite you to watch football with their friends as some sort of alleged date. Go so far as to meet your family and friends — or introduce you to his family and friends — and then ghost. Then you have to finish planning the date by getting in touch with him when the whole point of being asked out is not having to do that shit.29.
The only EMOTION I have time for is Carly Rae Jepson's new album. Say, "You looked really good when..." Like, there was a past date at which I looked great, and now, at this present date, I look like a feral gutter creature.10. So let's just skip this whole boring charade so you can tell me what it is! Ask you on a date and then the day rolls around on which said date is supposed to happen, but he never contacts you to confirm anything.